What Should I Do? And is my dad telling me whats right?

Your father is obsessed. Tell him if he doesn't back off, you will just stand around on the basketball court and act like you have no clue what to do.

How do i fix this strange problem, its making me terribly sick....?

I've got a strange problem...I have compulsion for thinking about the same thing time and again (at least every 5 minutes) throughout the day...I think about a problem which actually has a solution....Actually, i was emotionally abused (terribly) by 3 guys at high school 3.5 years ago...I fear that those guys might see me walking somewhere on the street and make fun of me (eg. my way of walking or my ridiculous expressions- coz i feel i have a ridiculous way of walking and tend to make strange and ridiculous expressions)....I have said about this to my elder brother and he has assured me that he would beat up those guys if they did that to me.....But still i keep imagining about the whole thing- as how i would be walking on the street and then see those guys at a distance imitating me or looking at me mockingly or laughing at me ...Then how i would pass them and then call my brother and get their asses kicked...I fear the humiliation i have to bear (for a few minutes) till my brother arrives at the spot to beat them up.....I don't fear if i'm ridiculed by anyone else, but i terribly fear being ridiculed by those three guys....I keep imagining this whole scenario at leat 100 times a day since past 25 days, which makes me have bad headaches throughout the day..I've become so dejected that i have lost motivation to do anything and have started considering suicide.....Could these unwanted recurring thoughts be due to OCD? Please also suggest a way to get rid of this problem...

Why does my friend get so upset when I say his mom has a nice ***?

I tell him his mom has a nice firm *** that I'd like to grab and smack and that I'd like to purple nurple her nice rack. Why does this get him so pissed off?

Help! My facebook is posting weird stuff!?

My facebook just set my status as some weird link with like a girls *** and was like talking about porn. im sure you have all seen them before. i WAS NOT watching porn. I dont know why my facebook did this and im afraid it will happen again and people will think the wrong thing. I alrerady changed my password. what do i do?

What can happen to me if i made a false statement to the police because fear of jail and fear of life?

I need helpreally bad! Me and my fiance got into a heated argument where we split for a while well during this time i began to hang with the wong crowd. One morning while watching the news with these new friends i saw his cousins house burnt down and i made the statement "I ought to go tell the police he burnt that house down just to piss him off". well my "friends" money hungy b**** did not like my fiance nor his cousin because he got them evicted from an apartment they stayed in when he worked sercurity. They figured they could get some quick reward money so they called the arson investigator and told him that my fiance burnt the house down for insurance fraud! i was asked to make a statement at which time i was pregnant and living on my own i lived in apartment alone and the "friends" stayed in the complex as well. well i was told that if i opened my mouth and told on them for lying i wouldnt have to worry about having my child because they would take care of me! When i told the arson investagator i didnt know anything he kept telling me i was lying and i was about to get arrested i was so scared i told him what he wanted to hear at which point he told me that he ws going to arrest my fiance if he didnt come make a statement. i got in contact with my fiance and he was scared of me going to jail or getting hurt that he lied to cover my *** now three people are being indicted on charges of first degree arson i dont know what to do can someone help me?? even after the statement were made i had to all the police three times on the "friends" because one tried to hit me with her car after i told her i was going to tell the truth, then i was walking up my steps with my brother and about 15 of her family members tried to rush us, and one actually came knocking on my door one night while my family was there trying to fight me i dont want to go to jail but i dont want those innocent people to go either!! i am unemployed and hardly have the money for a lawyer what can i do?

Why do gay people act so crazy at their stupid pride parades ?

Grown men should not be dancing around in leopard skin tight clothing nor should grown men be grinding on each other wearing @$$-less chaps. And you people wonder why society thinks you're sex-crazed perverts...

Do the mavs have to win game 4 to avoid choking in the series like they did against the heat?

Because if they don't, they'll have to go back to LA for game 5 which would certainly be winnable for a desperate Lakers team, and then their lead would only be 3-2, and the mavs would then be playing to avoid a game 7 on road. Since the mavs would be too dejected about playing game 7 on the road after a 3-0 lead, the lakers really only have to force a game 7 by winning three straight games to take the series.

I have a cut/crack on my dry lips? how can I fix this?

CARMEX! At any drugstore for less than $2. WAY better than vaseline that just sits on top of your lips, this actually penetrates into the lip to moisturize and heal. TRY not to smile as much but definitely use the Carmex. A tad of neosporin at night will help it stay clean. Good luck!

Do women need men as much as they need oxygen?

Its just young love and it works both ways... I know plenty of young men who are incredibly and completely besotted with their female companions. Also it was my Dad who suffered the most after my parents got divorced, even though he was the one to end it. My Mom recovered after a year and moved on, however he sunk into a deep depression that lasted for quite a few years.

Does it mean he is bisexual?

Given that this may be an immature attempt at attention, and far too graphic in your explanation, and something you can only know by asking "HIM" and experience, I'm more curious about YOUR gender/ orientation and why you express any of this here?

My boss and my pregnancy?

i told my boss that i was pregnant and reacted really rudely to it. She made me feel really bad for even telling her and yeah i know a lot of it is my hormones but it really upset me. She didnt act this way for the other girl who is pregnant. This is my second pregnancy and it made me feel so dejected and unimportant. What is the best way to deal with this? Please any opinions would be appreciated because i dont know what to think about her reaction. Thank you

I have a cut on my bottom lip what do i put on it?

I'm in Australia and we have a great product called paw paw ointment not sure if it's available overseas. It's fantastic for a split lip! Otherwise vaseline!

How do i set up my quick set ring pool?

got the filter put together just cant figure out the connection to the side of the pool with the hoses. no instructions in box, pain in the ****!! :) thanks in advance for the help!

How should I discipline my 5 year old brother?

My 5 year old half brother is just plain and simply bad. He swears, hits, is disrespectful, listens to no one, and says violent sentences such as, "I will cut your head off." His mother, I think, doesn't know how to deal with him, so she just simply doesn't. The only other person that disciplines him is my brother, who doesn't do much good either. I haven't tried disciplining him yet, since I haven't really been to my half sibling's house much. He hasn't gone to pre-school, so I am worried how he will act in Kindegarden. If it were up to me, he would come live with us for a while, since my mother must be doing something right since My brothers and I have gotten practically straight A's and are staying out of trouble. I don't want him to grow up to be like our father, who has always been in and out of jail, and is in prison as of now. Hitting him would do no good, as I have been told, since it will only be teaching him through violence, and controlling him through fear. I personally believe all he needs is one good *** whooping, and a sit in the corner. If you have any suggestions, please feel free to say them. I'm at my wits end.

Could I wear this for inhand showing welsh D? BEST ANSWER 5 STARS*****?

alot of of in-hand shows prefer brown boots/bridle/hat and black for ridden... when i first started i was equipped with all black except my bridle! very naughty but i still got away with 2 2nds and champion reserve!

What does this mean plzz help out *** much as posible?

this is a quote from anne frank plzz help me find out what shes really trying to say....."I could go on for hours about all the suffering the war has brought, but then I would only make myself more dejected. There is nothing we can do but wait as calmly as we can till the misery comes to an end. Jews and Christians wait, the whole earth waits; and there are many who wait for death."

14 My Anus is Cut Help please!?

This could cause infection. You might want to see a doctor. In the mean time, eat more fiber (fruits and veggies) and drink lots of water to kep things moving smoothly.

Who/what is the seed; speaking of as our days as coming to the end?

John 7:42 - "Hath not the scripture said, That Christ cometh of the seed of David, and out of the town of Bethlehem, where David was?"

I am so sad about this!?

I feel really bad for you. I cannot imagine the hell you are going through. The man is a pig, thank god you didn't marry him and have children with him. Do not think that he will treat the new girl any better than he treated you. Did you work and contribute to that house? Is your name on it? See a lawyer about getting your share of the house then see a therapist so that you can move on with your life. I know you won't see it this wqay right now but you really are lucky that he pulled this now rather than later. Good luck.

Which shoes should i get?

From above all shoes option you should get a Mudd Platform Wedge Sandals. These shoes are comfortable, easy to wear, looks great with dresses, pants, and capris

How can I stop being chubby, and become leaner?

There is no such thing as big boned. Anyone can look great if they work at it hard enough. I know it might suck and cliche but the way to get good looking is to work out, run, and eat less calories. A body burns about 2000 calories a day, so if you eat under 2000 and work out everyday you will lose weight. Honestly, if you want it you have to push for it and not cheat. Good luck.

Do I seem like a ****** if I don't want to hang out with my coworkers?

This one guy acted so dejected. They talk about how they drove around, drank, partied, and smoked pot on the job. I don't really like any of those things, especially with people I don't really know that well. I don't want to seem snooty, but I just don't think I'd have a good time.

My hot *** girlfriend cant get me to finish?

I'm 20 years old and I've been going out with this very hot maxim model (really happy and proud about it) and we seem to love each other, but it seems like she cant get me to ejaculate during sex...so i last about 2 in a half to 3 hours then i try to use my own hand to finish. Sometimes i may Ejac during sex once in a while which is awesome. But the main problem is when she gives me Bj's..she does it so good on me but yet I cant FINISH!!! Last night it seemed like she was getting frustrated by it and just walked away I felt like crap... do you think this will effect our relationship? Do you think this is a big problem? I'm amazing at sex btw and i always make her squirt and orgasm..and she always tells me she loves my D*** so how much do you think it will affect me?

Want to lose weight FAST?!?

I'm 13, but have the height&looks of a 15/16 year old, I weigh 140lbs, and am 163cm tall, I walk to school, usually takes 20minutes, then I walk home, takes 20 minutes, and I HATES MY BODY, every day I make myself angry and upset because I'm fat. everyone tells me I'm not, but I know I am. I feel horrible about myself. and people ALWAYS compliment me, every day, and I hate it because I think their lying, at least 4 boys a day grope or compliment my *** and say that I have a "fat&peachy ***" I know I do because I (think) I have wide hips:/. and girls&boys call me "pretty, gorgeous, beautiful" but I seriously don think I am atall, the only thing I like about myself is my eyes, because their green:L. I need a way to lose weight, I can't go to a gym, atall, I play netball for a hour and a half every friday, I need a way to lose weight fast, before I go back to cutting to stop my anger:(. please help?

Does he love me? is that what he meant? or not...? PLEASE HELP?

seems like hes testing your reaction yes but it also seems like hes quite a shy guy, or at least where you're concerned, so thats likely why he hasn't told you how he feels or mentioned being in a relationship etc

Chapped lips + vaseline = cold sore? Please help!! ?

I was up at the grand canyon & the wind gave my incredibly chapped lips. When I got home I put a Ton of vaseline on then right before I went to sleep. When I woke up I had a huge cold sore. It was actually on my lip. Usually I get them on the skin next to my lip. Was it the Vaseline??

Know any good songs for this scene of my film?

I'm making a short film for my high school's film festival. It's about a gnome that gets removed from the only home he's ever known, his garden. The scene I need music for is this: he's walking around the city, sad, head hung, looking for somewhere to go. Maybe he'll take a bus, or see a help wanted sign, or go to a pet store because he sees birds like he used to see in his garden, I don't know yet. So I need a song, something with a lot of piano maybe, sad-sounding and dejected, but still a little light-hearted because...it's just a gnome. Please please please let me know any songs you think might work! If I use it, I'll put your name in the credits =]

Is this woman testing me? Why would she have cancelled rudely and with attitude?

This is little more than conjecture on my part but I don't believe she was angry about anything. From what I gather the two of you go to the same gym, have spoken a number of times, perhaps there was some friendly flirting. Did you know about her boyfriend prior asking her to get together? Maybe she's not ready to come to terms with her true feelings so rather than outright reject you she came up with a decidedly lame excuse. You're right, doctor's appointments tend not to go that deep into the evening. And like most people, she probably does hate cancelling on someone.

How do you close up an ear piercing?

Take and keep the earings out, and clean them regularly with rubbing alcohol so they do not get infected.

Why did Ali not console Foreman after the Rumble in the Jungle?

George would have been dejected after that loss after the way Ali humiliated him and took his title and unbeaten record as George was 40-0-0 with 37 knockouts which included destroying Frazier and Norton in 2 rounds apiece whereas Ali had lost to Frazier and Norton and struggled against tem in rematches. But Ali made beating Geroge look easy. You would have thought Ali would have went over to Foreman and put an arm around his shoulder and said don't worry you will bounce back from this. Instead Ali labelled Foreman the mummy and said he was too slow and punched like a sissy lol. Although Ali did do that with the majority of his opponents except for Ken Norton funnily enough. He must have been scared of Kenny and Kenny's style for soe reason.

What should happen in my story?

Go with your first suggestion, it sounds like you put a lot more thought into it and it can add a twist to your story. If he's going to have a drinking problem you might want to leave subtle hints to foreshadow it without being obvious but without it coming completely out of the blue when you do reveal it to the reader. I hope that makes sense. You don't want to make him out to be super perfect so that when it turns out that he has a drinking problem the reader isn't going 'What the heck?! That makes no sense!' but still kind of surprise them too and then the hints you left early in the story suddenly come together.

Pregnant and very clingy with my boyfriend?

Okay.. So I'm 20 weeks pregnant and I can't seem to stop worrying about my boyfriend. Since we've found out he's stopped doing all of the things he knew were wrong. Such as smoking weed and drinking constantly... But sometimes he slips up.. Like he'll go hangout with one of his dumb *** friends and go smoke.. And it really pisses me off. I can't trust him in that sense but I know he's trying and wants to be in my life and this baby's life. Hes twenty.. And this baby wasn't planned, but he's told me many times he loves her already. But how do I stop being so over protective? Or do I have the right to be?

Is it OK to use these as lubricant during masturbation?

I have Cetaphil and Lubriderm, but the labels say they are for dry, sensitive skin or dry, chapped, or cracked skin. Would it be fine to use these "ultra hydrating" and "intense skin repair" lotions during masturbation without causing any harm?

What should I do? Fiance's faith and me?

You cannot ask him this you are overstepping the boundaries of Religion. Don't mix Religion with anything.

Why is my lip all swelled up and puffy?

My best advice would be to buy a product called blistex.It is a lip ointment and comes in little tubs.

10pts to the best answer. please answer its a short question!!?

i have chronic hives. I broke out with little bumps on my lips ( i have no stds, i was just tested) they come, u cant really see them, they feel like chapped lips n then they are gone, leaving me with chapped lips for about a week. how do i get rid of this chapped lip feeling?

My nose is chapped and itchy? (skin near nostrils)?

OK so where your nostrils start like the skin in there its like called the alla if you search up the diagram of the nose, well its like peeling and red and always itches. why is it doing that? and how can i stop it?

Why was she acting like this?

So I was really close friends with this one girl, then we got into this huge fight (this happened last year). We are friends again now since the beginning of this school year. Not close, but we're okay. So I was in class with her (it was the 3rd day of the semester) and I was trying to get her to talk by asking questions and kept being random like I usually am (I have a tendancy tot alk about useless things really fast and ramble on) and she kept saying "why are you telling me this" and "stop asking me all of these questions." Lol I felt really dejected, plus I had a really bad day. I mean maybe she was tired and all and just wanted me to shutup, but I mean is this even the way of doing this? Should I just not talk at all tomorrow? I really don't want to come off as annoying..

Have you ever been uncomfortable in this situation?

I wouldn't say anything. Her rules are her rules, yours are yours. I don't let my kids climb up the slides, but when I say something to them about it I'm in no way trying to scold the other parents!

Can someone please help me make a good online name?

I know you said you didn't want words fused together, but when I saw your list of words, one that jumped out at me was "Grimsoli", as in "grim" and "solitary" combined. It isn't especially noticeable that it's a fusion of two words. It's rather gender-neutral as well, though I don't know if that is a concern for you.

HELP . . VERY CHAPPED LIPS !!!?

my lips are always chapped i just don't know why they are always chapped and dry . . what are some ways to keep them from chapping or what is a good chap stick .. please help i hate my lips being chapped.

Bit of a CRB Check Issue. Any help?

The conviction is classed as spent but it will still appear for life on an Enhanced CRB. This Government are bringing in a law to get these minor convictions removed for youngsters. As the law stands it will be with you until you are 90.

How to give your friend an extreme makeover?

okay so people call her weird, ugly, and fat all the time and i hate it. But she does act pretty immature sometimes( like she always says she farted and laughs about potty talk) and i dont like it either. SO i dont want to change her totally but maybe make her a little prettier and more mature?? idk, i just want to help her and i dont want to seem like a bad person. OKAY so she has strawberry blonde hair thats long and its just normal. no bangs,layers, or anything. it is kinda stringy though.. eyes are blue and she has glasses but her lids are really big and you can hardly see her lashes. her brows hardly show cuz they r so blonde. she has a lot of acne and chapped lips. and she dresses quirky ... so yeah any ideas? thanks.

What Does kissing your crush in a dream mean?

In my dream, me and my crush were hanging out, and laughing, and we got super close, and I kissed him. He kissed me back and it was good. But then, he pulled back, looked all dejected, and when I asked what was wrong, he said that he had wanted to kiss me first. Then he kissed me passionatly. However, when we were hanging out with friends, he pretended like we hadn't kissed, and kept sneaking around to kiss me without our friends finding out. What does this dream mean?

Why was Rahab hospititality a good thing as to cause her to be saved at the end?

Rehab, believed in God, despite the odds, despite her personal costs. Even though, not considered an upstanding person, she took a stand for goodness, or the right thing...........she was willing to pay that personal price................willingness to obey, despite the odds or the personal cost, is what made her a "great", " an example" or memorable..........

My 1 1/2 yr old male chihuahua (not desexed) has recently started peeing on my pillow, and the mattress?

its cos he not desexed and wants sex. He is in heat and looking for a love. Trust me I know cos my dog always tried to jump on my back and start humping me but he is acting more mature now since he desexed.

Do you think he is only caring as a teacher?

Yeah, he might go beyond that, but he might also not. It really depends on his personality. I can't tell his personality over the internet. I would be careful though. One kid a couple of years ago got too informal with a teacher and got suspended because of it.

I want to apply for this job but need help on what to write and say?

Hi, there's an interesting job I have seen " Trainee surveyor".. the job description say's " No experience needed. Duties to include measuring the length and width of houses to asses suitable sizes for solar photovoltaic panels. Also digital photographs of the exterior and interior roofs." I have to send a written application along with my CV... As I don't have experience, But would like to, what could I write to make me look good for this job, so I could stand out from others and possibly get the job??? Thnx for your time peepz! :)

Is God's love really never ending?

Remember that everything happens for a reason. If you believe god loves you, then your god is real to you and he loves you. But in the end everything we hear, see, touch, taste, feel, and smell are all illusions, so take it as you will.

I am currently in a personal chap 7 bankruptcy process and I have a sole proprietorship?

I had to pay the trustee for the value, on the date of filing, of my business's Account Receivables. Will that money paid be a tax deduction for my business in 2011 ?

My kindergartner is embarrassed by her good grades.?

My daughter is normally thrilled to share her schoolwork and and good grades. However her first report card came home this week -straight As- and she didn't want talk about it. Then when her aunt told her how proud she was G left the room looking hurt and dejected. I don't get it. When asked why, she said she just felt shy. I didn't know she had a shy bone in her body.

What would be a hobby for a 15 year old?

i am 15 and its summer the time where i become lazy, and my mom mad!! lol i wanted to get a job but all the places i go to you must be 16 and 18 so i though i would just get a hobby! I do not want to get into RC cars, plans, boats or whatever else RC, i don't like sports i am a lazy *** and always will be! i want to start getting into real cars and maintenance.. but my parents wont let me touch the family SUV! (might be a good thing) and i don't want to do the little hobbies like collecting stamps, coins etc. I am also not to big on art. i have read a lot of other questions just like the one I am asking now but i don't like the answer to any of them and i wanted to see if i could get better answers!

Do you agree - Cursing others would Hurt us more?

There is an impact of Action and Reaction..Better Forgive and forget.It is the sound way to be always happy and peaceful

Do you like to read stories?

i'm too tired to read all that tonight, but i just wanted to say i'm sure marilyn had many stories to tell.

What brest enhancement medication can I use to get atleast 2 cups bigger?

Im 21. I had big ****. I loved it. Bout the only thing I loved about myself, then not so much when I lost 30 lbs from high school. My boyfriend is a tit guy, Im an *** person. But i definitely want bigger ****. I have a nice tan, and look decent in a bathing suit. What medication can i patiently use to make my breasts larger? You'd be my godess to help me..

How much do most liberals even know about conservative beliefs?

I think that fear is the primary conservative motivator. They're afraid of change, afraid of people who don't remind them of themselves, afraid of ideas that challenge their conventional wisdom. They want to go back to an imaginary, ideal past depicted by Leave It To Beaver and The Andy Griffith Show.

Is this a good set-up for going to the wilderness in RuneScape?

My level 61 character is equipped with Rune full helm, kite shield, crossbow, and boots, with the D'hide body, chaps, and vambraces. I also have the Team 46 cape, and the Amulet of Glory. In my inventory I have 14 Monk fish, two ropes, yew shortbow, 300 Mithril arrows, 1000 Iron bolts, a Mithril scimitar, and a Varrock teleport. Is it a good idea to go into the Wilderness like this? I've never been to the Wilderness. Also if you have any suggestions of what to bring that would be awesome :D!

Greek Myth: Is this really fair?

I don't know if any of the Greek myths were fair in the strict sense of the word. Fairness was not exactly a dominant trait among the Greek gods. I think that was kind of an important point for the Greeks - the unfairness of the gods reflected their own recognition of life as unfair in general.

Do I have Bipolar Disorder?

i dont think ur bipolar cuz thats like happy to angry and ur just angry to sad. i think u might be depressed but not that bad. maybe its a stage or something that ur going through. i've been that way before where i just dont want to do anything and i hate it. maybe u should try doing something. besides from just excepting it. make it better.:)

Did I make my boyfriend mad tonight?

yes u did. text him or somethign saying taht ur sorry and a reason and ask him to forgive you. If he truly likes you than he would not mid what u did.

I thought he was falling in love with me, why did he let me go so easily?

You cancelled your date together and then refused a second option because you said you would rather watch TV. Even if I loved a girl, if she said that to me I'd probably drop it right there. I can't believe you were shocked at this, he said he was falling for you and you said 'Nah, TV is more interesting to me than you are'. The only way you'll get him back is of you apologise for being an idiot and then explain to him what your issues were with the relationship. playing silly games just hurts peoples feelings and will end up with them moving on to someone more mature.

Can you evaluate this poem please? Where do you place it on the scale from 0-9?

She sold her soul and flesh? To be unfaithful or to survive? One of those is readily forgivable; the other takes a bit more work to forgive. You depicted the pain of the betrayed very well. God bless...

Girl friend problem please help..?

I proposed to this girl finally with guts after 18 months since i'm in love with her....she is my classmate... she did not accept me...she removed me from her friendlist and blocked me in facebook. My college life is ending in 2 months from now. I'm dejected.. and i'm 200% sure that this girl is still single.. How can i win her love...I dont want to miss her in my life...suggest me what can i do next...she have told me that i'm a great friend of hers...but i never expected she will cut my relationship in just 1 day...Help me...

AS MANY OPINIONS AS I CAN GET? CLICK HERE TO HELP A LONELY DEJECTED GIRL!!?

Talk to them about how you feel. You just have to be open, they will understand(if they dont they are not a real friend)

My man turned around and said he did not believe wot i said one nite wud you feel hurt by this ?

one nite i cud not see my chap because of family matters but next day he said he did not believe me, im am rite to feel hurt?

Whats wrong with my lip? lol?

Uhhh. So I woke up on friday I think? And my lips felt kinda like scaly? Lol Idk how to describe it. Its not chapped bcuz you can't tell unless I like rub my lips together and it feels kinda rough.. what's wrong with my lip! D; how do I make this go away? >.>

Are we going to see the return of the kiss my *** club?

I know wwe is PG but I got the feeling that Vince McMahon is going to bring the kiss my *** club back in a unique way I don't know maybe have Cena or Punk be involve what do you think?

I need help with a sex story?

Well me and my boyfriend are super horny but I have no more story's to think of, like I need some sexy *** **** that wil make him *** even tho Im not there please help make a story

I think I'm addicted to Vaseline?

okay so this is going to sound really weird, I'm 16 and up the age of about 10 i never used lip balm of any kind at all, but my lips started getting very sore, so my dad gave me a chap stick which really helped. From then on really i kept using Vaseline on my lips but its only in the last year or so that it's got really bad. Now I'm an advanced flute player so i have to use my lips a lot for that, but now i'm getting through about a tin of Vaseline every two weeks. I have to have a ready supply of it in my room in case the tin i'm using runs out. whenever i go out anywhere i have to take at least 2 tins of Vaseline just in case i lose one, or one runs out, and if i think i think i've forgotten a tin, then i get really panicky. what can i do!?

Simple question please answer?

I can't understand mine melancholy, sometimes im excited and wanna have everything in life and at other times i want nothing and everything seems useless im dejected... any guesses....or reasons for my feelings

Okay how would you go about explaining this to a therapist? Without getting too "deep"?

you are a unique person and there are a few who think sortof the same like you and I dont worry about what other ppl are like cuz its not going to help u trust me just believe ur beliefs even if u think its an obsession then thats ur purpose pursue it try to make the best of it whats the worse that can happen i mean just cuz it doesnt work for an ignorant conformist doesnt mean it wont work for u i mean most ppl believe america is the most free country and europe laughs at us for that so really what is normal/truth :)

What do you think about young girls wearing make up?

Your husband is correct; if your daughter's friends had more dads like your husband then many girls wouldn't want to grow up so fast. It is scary how some young girls are looking way too old but most of the times it is the parents fault. What I tell my 4 year old daughter is that she is perfect the way she is and that she is beautiful. Tell your daughter how beautiful she is often. Also let her know the age that you would want her to began using make-up.

HELP what type of abuse is this, if it is?

To better understand the dynamics at play in this relationship, it may be helpful to read about attachment theory (Bowlby). It sounds as if attachment dynamics are playing out in this relationship. Your boyfriend professes his love for you and it feels as though you are closer than before. You probably respond in kind and pull even closer to him. He then abruptly pulls away with no explanation, leaving you confused and sad and feeling very alone and panicked. He may require this time away from you because your former closeness felt too close and scary to him. After a while, he also begins to feel alone and starts to miss you and so he returns. These dynamics in themselves, though not the most healthy, are not abusive - neither of you have an understanding of what is playing out. Once you do, it is quite possible you would try to change them. However, some of the other tactics of his that you describe DO sound abusive, in a way that is meant for him to exert power and control in your relationship. You start to question if you are unworthy and unlovable in response, which means you will work even harder to try to please him and prove you are worthy and lovable. This gives him even more power and control - to treat you badly, to make you do things for him, etc. in order to prove how worthy and lovable you are. The solution, in addition to learning about attachment and its role in your relationship, might be to also learn mindfulness skills. When you start to panic and fear losing him, for example, you might learn to counter this with rational thinking such as "I will be okay even if he is not around." There are many good books about mindfulness and counseling or psychoeducational classes could also be a good resource.

Friend wants me to back him up?

Jeeze I have a friend who's with this girl and her ex husband is damn crazy and wants to fight my friend. So my friend text me asking to bring him to kick his *** and back him up incase. I have my cousins wedding next week and I'm best man, and I am a single dad and a car that needs fixing I have so much to do and hate this drama!!! He had the mind to say I am a bad friend and blah blah blah what should I do!!!

Alright so I need to change me?

You would cease to be yourself if you did that. Are you sure you want that? It's basically a form of death.

How to get my mom to just let go.?

Im 15, and my mother is so controoling its almost unbearable. I have always wanted one thing in my life and thats to be able to drive. Now that im of age to obtain my permit my mother refuses because i had to go to summer school for a week. i got it over and done with. Im very successful with school and i have a highly active social life which she tries to control all the time. I havent been able to go anywhere in the past year because apparently my grades havent been up to her standards. Also the only reason why i had to go to summer school was because i was struggling with that subject. I did look for some tutoring but no savior. She says that im not interested in my future as much as i should be which is a crock of s*** because i have almost my entire life planned out. I currently have more money than and other teenager because i save almost every penny. Im only a sophmore and i already am talking to coast guard recruiters and im finding out what colleges there going to pay for. I dont understand why i cant do anything when i only slipped up once. It doesnt make sense because i am very eager for my future as well as planning for it. I just need some advice to get her off my back cause if she doesnt ill probably have a mental breakdown. Im the type of person to hold everything inside cause im not one to share. I just have no where else to turn because even my dad has to legit ask her if he can wipe his ***. which is absolutley pathetic. She is the most controoling person i have ever met and it needs to stop or even just easen up. I need ideas about what to do and how to let her accept that im growing up and she needs to let me be me.

I have a girlfriend who gets stalked by the guys of her friend. What can I do?

She means the world to me and I never want any harm to befall on her. The most direct way is to kick their asses but I'm not the type of guy that likes to get into fights unless necessary.

Feeling alone and dejected...can someone from internet help?

Your evaluation of your treatment plan may well be correct. In that case, get a second opinion. I can't say why your self esteem is low. If you become expert at some field of interest, you will feel better. But as I don't know you or your diagnosis, I could only make generic suggestions, like sketching people at the coffee shop, taking up guitar, reading a good book, studying a period in history, listening to good music, making plans with friends, going to the gym, coloring your hair, connecting with a family member or old friend, remodeling your home, getting a better job, smiling, or meeting with someone with a good sense of humor. This person will make you laugh, and you will feel better. I only know what makes me happy, and that is sewing. My older sister is an artist, and my younger sister a photographer. Both are very sociable with many friends, children, nieces, grandchildren and an active life. Probably, you will have to discover what makes you happy. If these counselors have not found the right treatment plan for you, change. Also, learn about deep breathing and yoga to help relax. If you have further concerns not addressed, post again.

How can I fix this skin problem and what is causing it?

The only treatment that helped me was serenaskin eczema herbal remedies. I applied ointment and spray and took eczema extract internally. In less than a week this treatment cleared my skin.

What is the meaning of marilyn manson's tainted love song?

The song was originally sang by Gloria Jones in the 1960s, I think it's pretty superficial in meaning.

Is this hot or am I making a mistake?

I've twice hung out with a chick that has bad *** down to a science. Its punk rock, its sexy, but its kind of threatening. she's the kind of girl that will start a little trouble with other girls just to make them uncomfortable. The kind of girl that doesn't lecture you about responding aggressively to a jag off on the road - she joins in. She is in my face, too. From day one she has made it clar she thinks I'm hot enough to get with - but that I shouldn't take anything for granted. She has also made it clear she is very capable of kicking my balls, and she knows to kick a guy sexy, kick a guy funny, and how to kick a guy like she means it. The threat of a kick in the balls is very much a part of how she flirts - which is something she seems to be keen on doing with me. worst part is, i find it unbelievable hot - which is good - but man i'm starting to think like a freak and i don't know that that's a good thing. I think if we hang out again, I'll end up making a move and it will be well received. but i'm not a hump and dump kind of guy. is this girl too nuts to get involved with?

Loosing passion for music?

I am a singer 19 years old ben singing for years, Im in a band but just feel I am loosing the passion. band is a pain in the *** not working out. I just don't feel as I used to but i don't wanna loose the feeling. I warm up and practice everyday warm up is about 20 mins. It feels like its becoming a chore but if I don't practice as often my voice starts to get less powerful and sounds bad then ;/ what should I do? i dont wanna give up

Is this a good death note? I had to do it for school?

6514, that's the number of days my feet have walked this companionless earth that all are forced to call home. In this world I feel no embrass from those who live around me. The hostile days followed by the cold dejected nights only serve to remind me that I, in fact, am truly alone. With nothing to live for, each days affliction seems only to accumulate. Every day memories that I long for distant themselves not from dreams, they are the same thing. The sweet kiss of death comes nearer with every though that I might be happier if this life was taken from me. There is nothing here for me, no reason for one more breath to be wasted in this place where happiness and love seem absent. I write this goodbye letter as if one will find it let alone read it. More than anything I guess it a way to say goodbye to myself. My only regret is that I will leave this world no better than I had found it. No cherished memories will I take with me on this journey to which the destination is uncertain. My only hope is that this tear stained body will lie in peace and happiness will somehow find me. If I am gone, pain and sadness must leave me. They have been a part of me my whole life and their presence has always welcomed me. Not one will carry but a thought of me. I have made no impression and leave no evidence that my life was meaningful. Soon my body shall be returned to the ground from which I was brought to life only to be trampled on by those who come after me. I pray that no other man shall suffer as I have. And now I must go, life has said its goodbyes and death is calling faster than anyone could ever bear. One more breath and I'm out of here. Goodbye

Routine for me??? any trainers or health and diet people out there?!!?

I get at least 50 mins to an hour and a half of exersize a day, and it helps my body function better, dieting pills are not something i would recommend, and running helps your lungs and heart get stronger :)

My first horse show and i need help?

i'm going to do a walk/trot class for my first show. should i wear a hunter jacket? eventually i will use it again cuz i'm a jumper. do i have to wear a hair net? what color shirt do i wear underneath? what color should my jacket be? and is it ok to wear gray breeches? oh and can i wear my half chaps over my padock boots or just wear my rubber tall boots?

What's wrong with me?

Its like you are introvert and that ok. Many people are. Its not necessary that you always like being in public. You have your own little world so thats ok. You hang out with whom you like so cant be called anti social. Its better to be in company of them who loves you and whom you love than to be in company with hypocrates who are good on ones face and speaks bad at his back. You are quite normal dear.

FTM likes straight male friend?

Ok, so I consider myself trans. When I go out, I always wear a binder and I always pass as a male. I usually hang out with the same group of friends. 2 guys and this girl (Fred, Bob and Sarah (fake names btw)). They are all straight. The girl is married. Anyway, lately, I've been having feelings for Fred. He is a great guy but he is in love with Sarah. Nothing can happen with them because Sarah is married (but she leads him on, f*cking whore!). I always tell him that I like him but it's more of in a joking way. None of our friends would ever believe it because they think I'm all for girls. Can't really blame them for thinking that. And sarah is this blond haired blue eyed beautiful girl with a killer body. Most guys like her (ugh, kills me the way she treats her husband and acts like it's all innocent). Well, what should I do? I'm totally not his type. I look like a freaking teenage boy! But I do like him a lot! Oh and also, what should I do about Sarah? She always ask me to lie if her husband ask me any questions about where she has been yet she complains all the time about how much of an *** he is. But all the guy wants to do is hang out with her instead of her hanging out with us 24/7. He's an army officer and works all day, Just got off deployment 2 months ago. And we 3 deployed together and just got back 4 months ago. Fred, Sarah, Bob and I were together a whole year and Fred and Sarah spent way too much time together over there. No sex though. so HELP!

Do I have borderline personality disorder?

You could have. As a (near) borderline, I often think about how good suicide would be and the only thing stopping me is that my mom is alive and she would be heartbroken. If your emotions are intense and you release them in weird ways like making noises (I do), then you could have BPD.

Do Original Xbox Games Work On Xbox 360?

Because i have a lot of classic games from the original xbox that are not being made for XBOX 360 such *** Everything or Nothing on the original xbox but i have the newest xbox 360 250GB Hard Drive So if anyone could tell me that answer ide really appreciate it. Thanks! (:

Can you override nurture?

I have a problem. My parents raised me extremely overprotective and kept me inside the house most of the time. They barely taught me any skills such sports or even any other minor life skills. They loved me and gave me everything I needed, but they turned me into and empty shell with no proper skills and no self confidence. From a young age I had psychological problems such as major depression, large attacks of fear and anxiety, and unable to see reality for what it is. My parents were too naive to believe that I had any big problems when I told them I was feeling down (depression, but at that time I didn't know what I had) they just told me to be happy with no further investigation into my problem, and took my fears and quietness as nothing of significance. As I grew a little older and become a teen, I began to break out a bit as I started slowly hanging out with friends, got hobbies such as a healthy lifestyle and exercise. But even now at the age of 19, I still get depressed from time to time, feel hopeless, have unnecessary fear and anxiety, and lack of self confidence. Even though I know I shouldn't feel this way, and that there's nothing to worry about, my senses tell me otherwise. It feels as though my past has raised me to be useless in life and deject things, I know my senses are false, but it's hard to ignore them. Is there a way to override nurture?

What is Best Supplement for my BF?

My boyfrnd, feels that he has lost his 'erection' to some xtent and the amout of ejaculation is also low. But, I don't find any difference, for the past 2yrs. He is perfectly alright & functioning well and I really enjoy being with him. I think, he must be comparing with the previous yrs b4 we met. I worried to see him dejected & losing his confidence. So, can anybody help, with a good supplementary, to get back his 'lost energy'. Also, it should not have any side effects, which may affect his currrent stage.. Plz, help.

I have had a terrible year and, as a result, look old, tired and sad. How can I look rejuvenated quickly?

After a number of heartbreaks and bereavements, I had the year from hell. I experienced a deep depression which completely changed my life. I am now recovering, but when I look in the mirror I barely recognise myself. I look gaunt, sad, tired and dejected. I know that in the long run exercise, diet and good mental health will help me look my age again (mid twenties) but is there anything I can do in the time being to speed the process along. I really want to look lovely by this time next week... I already have a haircut booked!

Why I only get thoughts and feelings about this girl when I am in a air conditioned room that is cold?

I have been mean to her in person because she rejected me and I sometimes acted grumpy when she was around me like in the computer lab. The first time I ever talked to her and known her was during the fall semester of 2010. It was an acting class. One day our class was meeting in the library rather than in the auditorium and I was absent the last class and she saw me walking while she was driving her car and asked me you are in my class and you where absent last class so you you probably don't know this but our class is meeting in the library and told me to ride in her car. In her car I noticed she was wearing red glasses and she usually does not wear glasses. I said we both wear red glasses that makes us unique and I started flirting with her. I asked her about her job and she said she has 5 jobs and 1 includes t shirt modeling and the other includes pet setting and I told her I am looking for a job and she told me she would let me know as soon as I know there is an opening and then when we got to the library she sat on a computer then she told me I play roller derby and you should come and watch and then I asked her if I could add her on facebook and she said yes and I asked if she could message me the adress and said ya that would be fine. SO when she accepted my rquest I messaged her and she did not relpy to my personal megssage but instead posted the event on her wall so I did not go because it is a 2 hour drive from where I live. Then on a diffrent day I would complement her hair and she would say thankyou and walk away then i would follow her and when she was dancing I asked her what dance stye is this and she ignored me untill I repeated and she said she took a improve class before. Later that day I kept asking her about roler derby and I talked to her about sports. She said I should go because her team is hot checks and I told her like you and she said ya like me and waved her pawms at me. She asked me if I am use to phiscal contact and showed me roller derby moves and told me to stand with my knees bent and she attacked my knees and I moved then she pushed her back against my chest and stomach and I did not move but she moved 2 steps forward and told me you are solid but with scates on you will be knocked on your back. I asked her if she could be my wing woman and she said I am flattered but no because I have a lot of guys in my life and it is to much presure and she said other girls would be flattered but dont try to pick them up and I asked her if she was seeing someone and she said yes sorry. Her facebook status was single so far. Onetime her hand was broken when she came to class I said I hope you get better and she ignored me. Another day I saw her with a guy at a play in college and I kicked the chair that is infront of me and him and her saw me and the next day I saw her I acted as if nothing happened and said hi and she treated me normally and vluntered to act with me when I asked the whole class then bailed out on me. I onetime told her that her acting is not believable and she told me ****** you and I told her ****** you bitchhh and she smiled and told me I was joking and I said I was joking to and she said I know and smiled. Her facebook status was in a relationship with a certain guy then single again and then in a relationship again and now it is single. When I see her I act angry and I have hateful feelings towards her because I don't want to love her and I am trying to block those feeling I have for her. I asked her if she did that to avoid me in the end of the semester and she said that know it was because my scene was longer and take it at face value and I shock her hands and was horse playing with her by grabing her towards me and told me I will kick your ***. The next semster when I say hi she says hi back then walks fast when I ask her questions. In the computer section of the library she sits places where her face would face my face also I found her to be walking bedhing me from the sides the as soon as she passed me she looks at me then walks fast. I found her at a pool at my new place and I told her hi and she said hi and said I can't hear because there is water in my ears and the girls that was with me translated my question and it was do you live hear and it was a fast yes and I never seen her again there. I like her presonality more than looks.

Were can i find more scooby doo pictures like this?

Ok velma is wearing a orange sling shot with a real small skirt and brown boots with cuts all over her legs and face and she holding a shot gun. And scooby looks like a real bad *** great dane boxer looking dog with pointy ears and a real looking dog face he looks like a muscular pit bull with pointy ears staring into the mist with a cut off hand in his mouth. Do u know. Were I can find more please help

HELP what type of abuse is this, if it is?

He is a complete assbutt... it is called emotional abuse... dump his retarded a$$ and get a man who will show you real respect...

How can I get my husband to stop playing with his blow up dolls and to start paying me attention again?

I was furious at him one day, so I told him that he had a small d*ck. He didn't get angry at me in turn, but acted depressed and dejected. He wouldn't have sex with me after I said that, even after I apologized. The next week, I noticed a blow up doll in our home. At first, I thought it would be best if I just ignored it, but then I noticed another and another. Three weeks later there are now five blow up dolls and we still haven't had sex. What should I do?

Something is wrong with my boyfriend and i dont understand. help?

ok so we are together now for 2 months and ou relationship is very serious, we know each others parents, we go to family parties together and i go to his house every friday. so about three weeks ago he started texting me kinda cold, like he was doing things forced but then he had a conversation with me saying that its because of his math exam cause he is under a lot of pressure from his parents and everything, and he aid sorry. then last monday i didnt want to be with him i wa very nervous but my mom invited him to her b-day party and he was happy, we had a talk and he said he was seriously sorry and he was playing with my brother and my little cousin and it was the best thing ever, then he said that he wa very happy cause my family is very opened minded and they are proud of him he even asked me to stay at his house that night (no not to have sex or anything we are both virgin and im 17 and his 19) so this last week he started weird again...and i didn go to his house on friday and he didnt seem very bothered (maybe its all in my head) and on sunday he got invited to my aunts wedding and he sent a message saying that he needed to have a talk with me and i got nervous like REALLY and he said that he doesnt have the trust to go to the wedding an that he felt very sofucated cause he is afraid of hearting me and he doesnt want my family down cause im the best person that he has met, that no onw has ever loved him like i do and that things are not as perfect like the first few days (cause its normal) and that he would never betray my trust. so i got really nervous with this situation but then the next day my bestfriend was talking with him and asked him what was wrong with him and he said he can only focus on his band and that he was confused about lots of things and she asked if it had anything to do with me and he said "yes its about her, im not going to lie but its not what you are thinking of so dont worry". and today we were talking by text message and he said "my head is on the moon" and i asked why and he said because of lots of things and he said that he would talk with me face to face and not by phone and i asked what was the subject about he said "jess after. ouh i have arrived with my father " he changed the subject. ok this might be a pain in the *** but im really getting ill with this, im 17 and many guys have tried something with me and i never wanted to know cause they are all jackasses and my guy bestfriend said that the guy that i allow to get in my life had to be really special, so i met daniel...i didnt even care at the beggining, but WOW he is my male version we like the same things (music, colours, japan, band, guitar, friends,beeing retarded...) it goes on, i have never met anyone like him, and in the star he said he wanted to meet my parents cause he was so sure about me and it was very important that my parents trusted him and all that lot, my parents even met his because he asked. we are very opene with each other LIKE REALLY, we always say we have more than a relationship, we have a friendship and we trust each other like we trust no one else, and his best friend and my best friend ...like we are a family we are always together we call outr selfs retarded family. he suffered a lot with his last and only gf, she was a ***** with him and she even beat him -.- and then she left her cause when he loves someone he REALLY gives everything , all his heart out. so tomorrow we are officially together for 2 months and he says he wants to talk with me but seriously. and im nervous i dont know what to do, he asked me never to leave him and that he was never sure of anything like he was with me...and i said the same thing. i dont know what to expect, what if wants to breakup with me?:s i dont know how to react and it feels so soon and i just dont know what happened...im really nervous i cant even eat. i have clothes of his he has t.shirts of mine. i dont know. will someone help me?

Accutane is making no difference, please help!?

Hi, I am a 21 year old female and have just been prescribed accutane. Today marks day 7 of taking accutane. I am a little worried because I have seen no improvement in my acne at all whatsoever. Not only this, but my body doesn't seem to be reacting to it at all, I have no dryness, no chapped lips, nothing. My skin is as oily as ever and I guess my question is, when will I start to notice something happening? Has anyone else had something similar happen to them? Thanks!

What could have cause my clown loaches death?

I had 1 clown loach in a 36 gallon tank with 4 black phantom tetras, 4 mollies, and 3 glofish. I know some think clown loaches are aggressive but they actually are not. He was a peaceful fish. They fake dead a lot but his eyes were dialated and when I took him he didn't flap. What could have caused this? Did he need a mate like all the other chaps? Cuz everyone else had a mate.

Why or what does it mean when my mouth and lips dry out right before I kiss a girl? ?

I'm really comfortable around girls and really flirtatious, however I haven't kissed or madeout with a ton, but quite a few. My lips get chapped, mainly dry and my tounge and mouth feel very dry, almost dry spit. Is it just nerves? can I fix it by just more expierience?

Whats something sweet I can tell my girlfriend?

Maybe You Could Say A Sweet Joke, Such As : Is Your Dad A Baker? Because He Made A Cutie Pie! :) Or Just Something Not To Strong, But Strong Enough To Make Her Feel Good About Herself :)

Best balm for weird lips?-- read desription?

ok so my lips are really weird they get chapped everyday and are always peeling. I know there are a lot of special balms and chapsticks out there but which ones are the best and really work well?

I need help in losing my weight, please.?

I am trying to lose my weight for the past 2 months and it's not happening. I do exercise on treadmill 1 hour daily (around 350 calories are burnt) and my diet is around 1200-1300 calories daily. I don't take sweets nor oily food. If I do, I make sure only half teaspoon is consumed. I steam or boil my food. For carb, I take those whole grain or brown rice in small amount. I do drink green tea to clear off those toxins from my body. Even by doing so I still can't reduce even 1 lbs!!!!!! This has go on for 2 months!!!! I feel extremely dejected. I can't increase my exercise time due to hectic schedule and I do make sure that I sleep 6 hours. I'm feeling very hopeless and sad looking at those who can while I can't. Am I doing anything wrong? Even my doctor is surprised with my no weight loss. Can someone please help me? I'm 167 pounds and my ideal weight is 110-120 pounds.

Any jobs for 13 yr olds in california?

i mean a reall job like at gamestop or something. Something besides lying it works but last time i joined the army but they found out because i didnt have id and then my sister kicked my *** and i couldnt play ps3 for two months. So yea something but without lying thankyou.

Anyone else sleep in bed with wrangler jeans and Cowboy Boots and plaid shirt?

hahaha i do it LOTS! regardless is i am drunk or sober! i have it all on, Cowboy boots, Wrangler jeans, tucked in plaid button up shirt, western belt and belt buckle and sometimes my rodeo chaps (once when i blacked out i had everything on and my chaps but when my eyes opened the chaps were off but everything else was still on!) hahahaha i also sleep in jeans lots to! i am a 21 year old male to! hahaha!

Would give me a drink and something?

to eat if i chaped your door or would you just kick the shite out of me for the cheek of chapping your door...

How can I fix my very chapped lips?

My lips are extremely dry and cracked. What is a good chapstick to use and how can I prevent this for the future??

If youre a guy, anywhere between 20 and 26 and not a complete douche, look?!?

hey, im not looking for a boyfriend, i have one. i just need someone to talk to, like a pen pal. someone like i am that id be compatible with as a friend who i could email or facebook or something when i needed to talk. i like alternative music, i guess youd call it. im a wise ***. i like to talk **** basically. but my boyfriend wont discuss any of my feelings with me and im going insane!!! i just had a baby 6 weeks ago and i dont rlly have time for ppl. to be honest i hate most ppl but i need a friend! is there anyone who is, or knows of a place to find people like this online? no rude comments, im not in the mood. helpful answers only please! spanks!

Is this strange for a first time hooking up?

i was 16 now im 17 and i never hooked up before and me and a friend and 2 girls that i never really talk to very much got drunk (my first and only time) before a football game and after the game i hooked up with one of the girls and she basically gave me a handjob but i didnt ejaculate and she kept putting my hand on her ***. is this normal? shes not that much of a slut

Allergic to Maybelline lip stain?

Last night I bought Maybelline Color Sensation Lip Stain. I applied it last night, and nothing happened. Then I applied it this morning, and nothing happened then either. I applied it an hour ago, and suddenly my lips burned. I applied chap stick over my lips- thinking my lips were dry. A few minutes later, I felt a bump on my lip. Then I looked in the mirror and found another white bump, and an abrasion looking bump- a bump that looks like it's bleeding underneath it. I have no idea whats wrong. The first two times I applied it, my lips were fine. Can anyone help me out? Thanks.

Guys and Lesbos I have a question?

witch sounds better? Girl A: 5ft, blonde hair to shoulders, hyper, DD, nice ***(so says many people not in my mind personally), thin, athlete, teal eyes, funny, smart but to lazy to do schoolwork, and a virgin OR Girl B: 4ft6, black little longer then shoulders, hyper, brown eyes, B cup, no ***, hates sports, in basic classes not because of laziness, and will thinks STD's are like Pokemon and she has to catch 'em all! well not that far but has slept with tuns of guys (also guess witch one is me cough*A*cough*cough!) just wanna know cuz this girl is always makes me feel bad about myself cuz she's someone my boyfriend used to like and his his best friend and pisses me off like mad.... I'm a little jellious I can't help it and please no nasty *** comments she said that pokemon think about herself not me so don't think I'm mean

I Am Depressed and I Don't Know What to Do ( Please Help!!!! )?

I am about to enter my senior year of high school and I worked very hard for the entire 3 years so far. I have a general idea of what I want to study and where I want to go, but my parents crushed down all of my personal options. They want me to apply to a state school or the universities in my state, but I really wanted to go away for college. My mom is even brainwashing my siblings into thinking that the state schools in my area are the most perfect ideal places, but the truth is they're not. I looked into all of them and researched them, and these schools have low requirements and test scores. My mom didn't even go to college and the only reason why my dad is forcing me to apply to schools near home is because he doesn't want me to leave because he thinks I'm too young. I hate living in this dejecting environment. I really want to go out of state/country for college and I even looked schools that are out of state and country and showed them to my parents, but my dad saw the prices and he said that he won't waste the money on me because he's saving up for my 3 younger siblings. I told him I could get loans and get a job and apply for scholarships, but he said that is ridiculous. I can't stand it anymore. I hate the state I live in. I hate the people in the neighborhood I live in. My dream was to go to a university far away and focus on my studies and become successful, and make the friends of my lifetime. But, my parents won't allow me to apply to any of these schools and they said if I do they won't support me financially. Also, my parents want me to go to college close to home because they want me to live in home. Please, please, please what can I do? I really don't want to stay here anymore and I can't stand this idea my parents are imposing on me and my family. Everytime they bring it up, I become depressed and fall apart. Please help me.

I stole chap stick. What will happen to me? Please Help!?

Your going to be fine first of all barcodes dont set off scanners magnetic strips do and stores only put those on their expensive stuff. secound if they didnt catch you stealing it you cant be prosecuted unless you confess, and finally if your in a store that sells chapstick it is highly unlikely that any of the employees give a crap, and if i am wrong about all of this (which im not) and they send in a swat team to take down the chapstick thief just tell them your friend stole all the chapsticks.

Do I need to make any alterations to my diesel car to run it on biodiesel?

I have a diesel Vauxhall Zafira. I have asked the manufacturer if I can run it on bio diesel but they have said they don't recommend any Vauxhalls run on bio diesel. I'm assuming they are just covering their asses. If I were to switch to bio diesel do I need to make any adaptions to any parts? Can I just top up with bio diesel on top of the diesel I already have in my tank, or should it be thoroughly emptied first?

What girl should y choose?

Honstly you should choose the sweet one because you know she really likes you and hey if the 1st is really Effin hot and all the guys love her Ik those type they will cheat on you. This is from my opinion....

I am currently in a personal chap 7 bankruptcy process and I have a sole proprietorship.?

I had to pay the trustee for the value, on the date of filing, of my business's Account Receivable. Will that money paid be a tax deduction for my business in 2011 ?

How is this writing? What grade level would you think it is?

Very detailed and informative of the scene...Any other 14 year old would have a hard time reading this without a dictionary at hand :) Anyway... It is stiff in a sense that it transmits no emotion across to the reader thus making the story a bit dull. This happens to readers a lot they find that they are thinking to much about the vocabulary chosen that their product is a bit boring. Try not to think so hard about the actual words think beyond them...my advice (forgive me if it is of no use) is to become one of the characters don't be the author...try to become part of the setting and go from there... If you can not do it with this story write a short side story sort of as a warm up. In this story, write about something that you are inspired and passionate about something that you feel comes easy to you... then continue with this one....Keep trying...Practice makes perfect (its true)

Where do i go from here with a grown *** 15 yr old?

Well im a mother of 2 boys and also take care of my sister kids boy &a girl Well the nephew he listen and some like Well behaved Well for the niece she thinks she know every thing .Well my niece is15 yrs old and yesterday she came to me ask can she go Jang out with her girlfriend i told her Yes Well When she came back home it was something different about here like she had a glow going on about her but i didnt say anything because i didnt want to humo to any conclusi�n so im was going to bed and i pick up the house phone to Tell her to not go back out side When i over here her conversation on the phone that she had sex so her friend ask her Did she *** and she says i dont know because a girl cannt Tell if she *** boy was i mad so she ask him about His self-confidence and he says that im a hustler and that he drop out of school now im not sitting Well with none of this non since at all so she cursing like a grown-up which that didnt sit Well with me nether .in my book my kids can talk to me about anything and they have done it in the pass .im upset that she having sex at such a young.age messing with a good for nothing thug .now i always ask my niece was she a virgin and she swore to me that she was and now that i found out that she not .i cannt trust her .all my kids know that they can talk to me about anything .and i mean anything but i just dont understand Why she lied to me this time how many othere times she Did this .and by the way the boy is 20 .now what should i do i want to take her to get birthcontol .but i dont want it to b like its ok to spead her legs Open at any giving time she only 15 there is more boys to come she going to like many more .what do i say Or do.her father is not in her life right now.so i dont want her running to a man for love that she missing please help

I need some boy advice, a guy is acting like a pig, but I can't decipher everything.?

prime example of what most guys are like now, forget him and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Paddock boot recommendations?

I'm looking to buy a new pair of paddock boots. I wear a size 6, have somewhat narrow feet, and expect to spend more time on the ground that on horseback with them. I don't want to spend much more than 100 dollars if I have to. When riding, I will wear half chaps.

Re-write, how is this poem?

I like it, it seems like a dark Love type thing going on, If it were my poem, I would name it: A Brutal Love, rather than the longer one you have.

Can beggars be choosers where getting work is concerned?

My answer will be sweet and simple:if you can work and earn your money why not?When you were in university or just after graduation i believe you took the first job you got!why?As a transition work to keep the boat afloat till you get something better.Well its the same situation now only someone can get benefit and will usually think like this:If i can get money for doing nothing why should i work?

Why don't people support Obama by his many accomplishments for this country as opposed to attacking opposition?

I think it has to do with the fact that Obama has very few accomplishments and is more hypocritical than anything. Congressional Law professor my ***.

I did badly in exams this time round and I feel really down?

I have always scored straight As, yes, straight As for my high school mid-year examinations. However, this time round, I did quite badly and failed quite a number of subjects. It's not that I did not study but I just scored very low this time round for no apparent reason. Even my most dependable English abandoned me this time round too. I feel really dejected and I really worry about how my parents will feel? Any tips?

How do I solve dry liPs when I put on about 2 chapsticks a day?

I'm taking this medication called acutain and I have extremely chapped lips! And also on June 23 (this Thursday) I'm going to Mexico for a wedding. I want to look my best! Please sEnd back some advice!!!!!!!!

What is the right punctuation to use here? Hope native English speakers help?

Some people feel dejected and give up in the face of difficulties, while others choose to blame others for their plight.

How would you rate this on a scale of 1-10?

I like it :) It's funny and I think it sounds pretty original. There is a bit too much dialogue, however, and I think you need to get a better balance between that and description. I'm also assuming that I'm missing a pre-story, but I won't take off marks because of that! - that would be mean. I give it a 7 :D

Why would she have been like this when she cancelled?

She's not into you enough to take the relationship outside of her bf. She enjoys your attention on her but can't reciprocate.

Does anybody have any good info regarding "Kush",legal smoking herbs and spices?

I am wondering if these can be addicting? Also is it WORSE than normal marijuana? Help me out here guys,cuz I hear BOTH sides and want to know who is right and who is wrong. I have had both positive and negative reactions,in my own experience. Some r just kind of relaxing and others make me feel like an acid trip is coming on and then I feel like I am going to puke and have to lay my *** down for an hour or two. But I NEVER know which one I am going to get cuz sometimes it's ok and other times it makes me feel sick. And I can NOT stand the sick feeling. And sometimes the cansister is really full and the next time it may be half as full as the other one. WTF is goin on with this stuff? Should I just stick to regular buds? OR just quit BOTH? I am kinda on both sides of the coin,so to speak!

My brothers friends are cruel and ignorant, what advice can I give him?

Tell him there are better people to hang out with than them. Encourage him to join after-school clubs that are centered around his interests and he could meet better friends.

Arrrg.... anyone know how to talk to a clingy guy?

maybe he is scared incase you leave because he might not be able to affort the phone and internet and his membership for wow haha.

My babies dad is a *** hole and don't know what to do!!!?

Kimy I am 38 and have a now 19 year old son. I went through a lot with my son's father many years ago. I don't know what your situation is, but if he persists, you need to call the police. And do it every time. Save everything. This creates a paper trail. As far as your little girl, she does not need to know, don't let her hear these things. My ex husband was violent, bipolar, a drug addict and alcoholic and I made the HUGE mistake of telling my son the truth about his dad. Now, he resents me, and tells people he had a bad childhood, and that his father would not of turned out that way if I had not divorced him. I struggle for many years to give him things, and his father never concerned himself with our son. I got a meager 108.74 in child support. I had his wages garnished so I did not have to see him. If I had to do it over again, I would have moved. Now my son acts a lot like him. Since my ex husband had and to this day still lives with his mother, she was the one that would take me to court when I was trying to keep my son away from his bad behavior. A judge will almost always be lenient to a father. It is hard to terminate their visitation even if it is in the best interest of your child. He is angry at you, and will do anything to make you miserable, he is immature. A guy like him will never look at it and say this is the mother of my child, what do they need, how can I help? He will not change. If you stay there, he will always be a thorn at your side. I would not want to see anyone go through what I went through, and am still going through. If moving is not an option now, work on making it one. Put back money. Get as far away from him for the sake of your daughter. IF seeing him treat you that way, it will cause dysfunction between you and your daughter, she could very well pick up on that behavior and and direct it towards you. You just don't know how a child processes observing violent behavior in someone, how it will effect them. Shower her with love, kisses, hugs everyday. Make that bond between the two of you strong.

Im confused, dejected, unable to understand anything?? any views....?

Why i always choose the hardest part! Im always dejected and feel depressed cuz i think a lot....Its like i always choose difficult things like ill like to regret for not doing a thing in my life than to do it... I know i never had someone close enough to talk and thats why ive emptied all my thoughts in my brain....sometimes i feel paranoid, schizoid....i feel i don't relate to my life and how i should be living.... What should i do to feel better and no rant answers....

Where did God come from?

Did he pull himself out of his own ***? was the bible in fact written by jesus but died before he could say it was all a joke? Are religious people crazy?

What subs should i buy?

im looking to get a kick *** sound system. I would like to have a minimum of 2 subs(that must sound good and be loud) an amp, led lights for the subs and the rest of the car, and speakers for the sides and back, with tweeters. i want the total to be somewhere around 500 bucks. what should i get?

Confused..is he into me or using me?

Well I started talking to this guy about a week ago. Usually through text and we've hung out twice. Each time we've gotten together we'd mess around. (I'm about to be 19 and he is 20. I'm also a virgin) Normally it takes me awhile before I actually mess around and this is the first time I've went this fast with anybody. We haven't had sex, he tried and when I didn't let him he said it was fine and continued kissing me. Last night though I gave him head twice. He hasn't been a douche bag or rude but I'm wondering/worried if he kind of lost respect for me because I don't think he will be asking me to be his girlfriend. I'm not attached or up his *** it's pretty casual between us but I do like him. I'm just curious if he's only talking to me in hopes of sleeping with me, which I'm NOT allowing unless I'm fully ready and that's definitely not now.

What is the best cigarette type?

Please don't tell me to quit smoking, I am above the legal smoking age in the US, and my current hometown/city. I've been smoking past the point of no return. I need cigarettes that are very smooth, and that don't taste like ***. I don't care about price, I make $150k+ a year, so yeah.

What can i do about chapped foreskin?

so it is just chapped like lips get sometimes and thats it and i have to lubricate it all the time to pull the skin back

Getting unsecured loan after bankruptcy?

December 2010 our chap 7 bankruptcy was discharged. Currently we are living next to my brother in law on my mother in laws 10 acres of land. We have been slowley getting the side 5 acres ready for u to move our mobile home on so we can have our own yard. I think my bro in law is ready for us to move you can cut the tension lol. It going to cost us about $3500 to get mechanical sewer system and some other things to get moved over. We have already spent about $2000 on things already to get moved. It will probably be next year before we can save enough to move. My question is what are the cahncea of getting an unsecured loan for $3500 thru our credit union? We already have a truck financed with them and the interest rate is 8%. We owe about $5000 less than the truck is worth.

Jealous immature older sister?!?

Everyone thinks my sister is so so nice. She is nice when she puts up tht front for everyone to see which is sooo fake. I am alwaysss soo incredibly nice to her. I don't provoke her or anything however if I ever talk to her she will yell at me and scream for no good reason! She's 18 for christs sake. She will lock me out of the house for hours refuse to give me rides when she is supposed to and is plan rude and mean to me! My mom told me tht "even a blind person" could she she's jealous (I'm a pom and cheerleader she didn't even make lax so I get success and my aunt said I'm gonna get married first cuz I'm more attractive) idk what to do she always says "u have no friends, ik what uve done too (which I still don't even know myself..) and she's always riding my *** about everything!!! She yelled at me for "breathing loudly". What do I do!!!

Picking Lips Caused Scar On My Lip?

My lips were very rough in childhood and I didn't put on chap stick often, I picked the rough spots to make it smoother, and a few years of doing that and I can see this scar on my lip? They are smooth now as I've put lots of chap stick this month, and I can see a scar on my upper lip, will it go away if I keep putting chap stick? Or is it there forever? My lip is smooth, it's all smooth, it just got darker in one area that I picked the most. Will the colour go back to my regular colour?

How do i make up with this girl?

We used to be really good friends. Then I accidently took some stuff out on her, and now she hates me, and says im making her life a misery. Ive apologised on her fb page and tried to chat to her and she wont reply. I feel so awful and ashamed and i have to go to her birthday party on the 14th July and i want to make up by then. If you think she is over reacting u r rong i was an ***. Help me...

Business or PreMed? What is life about anyway, and how do you find your passion?

The only way to find your passion is by being exposed to it. But there is no guarantee that you will ever find your passion - or if you even have one. Slow down. Why are you considering medicine and business? Do you really have an interest in those fields, or are they just a conventional choice? What about law, or science, or the environment, or fish biology? The possibilities are endless. Don't think you must decide right now. Just as in relationships, it's better to play the field than just pick one to get it over with. And as in a relationship, you'll know when the right one comes along. Trust your gut feelings and you won't go wrong.

When you have chapped/dry lips, is it bad to pull the skin from them?

That's an old wives tail. But, pulling the skin off could make them take longer to heal. Also, you risk pulling a piece off that's not ready to come off. Carmex, carmex, carmex!

Is the opening to my story eye catching? Would you read it?

It is eye-catching, I loved it. I'm 14 too.That's probably better than I can write. The only grammar issue I see is you used the wrong spelling of Ferry. You spelled it like it was a fairy princess :) But other than that....IT WAS AMAZING!

I've been out of church for over 7 years. I miss it, but I've lost the desire for fellowship.?

I left after the pastor did. However, I never was 100% committed and took it for granted. I'm so far off the walk, I hardly resemble a believer. I cannot even bring myself to call myself a Christian, although I know I'm saved. I lost 99.99 % of my close friends when I left the church and feel rejected and dejected. Pitiful, ain't it? I honestly fear I will remain this way until either I die, or the rapture occurs, which ever comes first. What else shall I do? Haven't truly prayed or sought God in a long time. Lots of words for a lot of worry.

Drove my car through water and wont start?

Drove my car through what didn't look like that deep of a puddle apparently it was, my car died almost all the way through, it's an 01 chrysler sebring. That water wasn't that deep possibly to the bottom of my door? I was a dumb *** and tried to restart it in the water. I pushed it out onto dry ground. Tried to crank it and it sounded like it was trying to fire, making that initial turning over noise. I pulled the air filter ( not the spark plugs yet seeing how i had no tools at the moment). Eventually it just started tapping really fast when i tried to crank it, sounded more electrical plus the lights flashed in the car everytime the tapping noise occured. Had it towed to my house and this am i tried to crank it and it made the tapping noise, i turned the key to battery mode where electronics come on let it sit for a min and tried to crank it which made it try to crank without the tapping noise, it did sound like my batter way dying at that moment in time though. If i let it dry out a bit longer and hook some jumper cables up to it is it savable without anymore work? I wasn't in that deep of water and my water intake is RIGHT under the hood so i dno't know what happened.

Why are people rude to me when I'm friendly?

I did suffer the same problems a couple of years ago! I really affected me and my social life....You should talk to your doctor about it, and tell your doctor whats going on, and how hard is to deal with that! ask about xanax or prozac....I took that medication and helped me relax and be more social around people....You will see that you will be more comfortable around people when you start taking medication...I hope this helps

I give up..I dont want to go there again.?

I was with a fellow for 7 months. we got along really well, were on the same sports team together, had so many things in common, loved the same things, enjoyed each others company. etc etc I could go on and on...then he figures the relationship wasnt getting "stronger" or going anywhere and he buggers off. I am just at a loss. I gave the guy everything I could..we cooked together, hiked together, cuddled together, intimacy/sex was great, he told me im beautiful and sexy, he said its so easy being with you. I met his friends, his family, The only things that was a big obstacle was that I was in the middle of a divorce and I had two teenagers to deal with (who arent the easiest to deal with in the first place) and he had some issues with them.. it has totally eroded my self esteem when I gave this guy everything I would want in return...doing favours for him, bubble bath and wine when he came over from work, dinner. outings, He was equally great and I felt the feelings/thoughts/processes were the same. Boy was I wrong. What the heck happened here? Now I feel used and since I gave him everything, I dont feel I could have given more...dont think I would want to give my all to another relationship. How could I? Why would I? I know he wanted to know that marriage and settling down were in the future, but I think he wanted them real quick...I am separated, but still married. He wanted me to move in with him, but i have my own place with two teens to boot.. How the heck can I do this? In such a short time? Its upsetting and frustrating and making me really upset and dejected. I cannot help that my divorce is taking longer than its supposed to. I cant help that I have two teenages, who arent the easiest. I feel like I dont want to give 100% to any relationship anymore. What happened?

I am not confident while speaking...even to my own parents. How can I improve?

Its not that I don't have a sense of humour or that I dont speak much. But when I speak, I feel like I cannot express correctly what I mean and I fail to explain my cause to people and even to my own parents. Hence sometimes I feel like they dont take me seriously. And they not taking me seriously angers me more and makes me behave rudely to them which I dont want. Its something like I cannot put the correct words or frame my sentence in the correct way or maybe say it in the correct manner. I always have a feeling I mess up with my words. And also when some of my friends or my relatives say something to me joking me or say being sarcastic, I fail to come up with a good reply and feel dejected. Sometimes I end up saying something which I later realize, I shouldnt have said it, I have attention-seeking tendencies and often make up stories to grab attention. Sometimes while I am among people, I have a feeling I go unattented and feel odd. I have OCD. Dont know if all of this has to do something with that. Please help me. I hate this.

How to get over a crush?

There is a woman that I like so much at my uni.we're doing the same course and almost every week we'll meet in the class. sometimes we talked to each other and since last year, my feelings toward her grew stronger and stronger. she's always nice to me. she's cute and cheerful person. to make it short, last easter break, i tried to ask her out twice but both of them she said she's busy or had to go somewhere else. i was a lil bit disappointed and dejected. after that, we kinda not really talking to each other and she seems tryng to stay away from me. but, the problem is i couldn't stop thinking about her and just last night i had a dream about her (it's a non-dirty dream). so, please help me. it's so suffering to be in this kind of state. fyi, i have social anxiety disorder.

"I wooof you" ?? What did he mean by this Was he getting at "LOVE"?

It was probably just the booze talking. Let it blow over. He was just trying to be funny. The next time you talk to him tell him "I woof you too!!!!! r

Questions about after getting a lip ring. some one please help !?!?

I think you should just wait until the piercing heals and be very cautious of everything that you do that might affect the piercing. However, you should know that getting a piercing of any kind is a big commitment and affects your health. So think a little more before getting anymore piercings.

I wrote a troll question, and now I'm by myself laughing my *** off about it, is there something wrong with me?

This is my first time writing a troll question and I didn't think it was that funny but then all of a sudden I bursted out into laughter is there something wrong with me?

What should my friend do? His girlfriend doesn't even believe him!?

My friend is having issues with his girlfriend. I care about him so that's why I'm trying to help him. Anyways what's happening is there's this one other dude who has a crush on his girlfriend and is trying to steal her away by manipulating. He got in an argument with him online then the dude screened only one part of it, showed it to my friend's girlfriend, and made it seem like my friend was being the mean one. ut behind her back, that dude is very mean but now that he tricked her with the screenshot, she won't believe me or her boyfriend(my friend). She believes this bad *** instead (who's secretly trying to steal her away and won't tell her). He's so tricky! I can't believe she doesn't believe her own boyfriend, and he's so nice to her too. What should we do? He wants me to help him save the relationship.

Can anybody help me figure out what I have (symptoms listed) PLEASE 10 points best answer?

First off, consult a doctor, because everyone who answers this could be wrong, and the only person to prescribe a medication is a doctor, not us right? Anyways, I have two ideas on what you have. If you have been out in the sun a lot this past week, you could have "Heat exhaustion", which means you were outside in the heat and sun too long which causes many of your symptoms. My 2nd idea is, a terrible cold. My sister had many of your symptoms about a year ago, and the doctor just said she had a terrible cold, and he gave her meds for like 3-4weeks. But like I said before, consult a doctor for the correct medication, and advice! I hope you feel better very, very soon!! :) -Mason

My lips are always chapped ( I use chapsticks ) And it always happens to be my upper lips only. Any idea why?

Starting around when I was 13, my lips were always chapped. My diet isn't off, It's pretty normal I suppose. Someone said it was because I lack vitamin C so I started taking vitamin C pills. Didn't really do much. Anyways my lower lip is fine, but my upper lips are ALWAYS peeling/shedding. My friends say it pretty grimy. Any help would be awesome.

Do You Really Think Any Celebrity In This World is truly "Better" Than You? If So Explain Why?

When I see any kind of criticism on a celebrity coming from people the most common response from fans to critics is "well she/he is soooooooo rich what are you doing?" or "he/she is famous and you're not" What does this mean? Do the fans themselves feel like they are winning when their celeb makes millions and doesn't even somewhat acknowledge them? Take Kim Kardashian for instance a woman who became famous because her parents are rich, hollywood connected, and she stooped as low as doing a public tape with ray j to get attention - If you go to her webpage all you see are young girls kissing her *** 24 hours a day. A whole day spent kissing kim kardashians *** on the internet. What REALLY makes people think that even celebs who lack dignity and self-respect are truly "better" than themselves a co-worker, or a friend? What makes them think that these people are any better? Is someone better, smarter, and more able than you just because your TV set wants you to believe that? Whats the deal with all of this?

What do you think about my story so far?

I think its really good I'd like to read more of you could update it, it sounds like an awesome story that I would be interested in.

Why am I always getting cold sores?

It seems like this year I get them a lot and they take a while to go away. Is it because I haven't always used chap stick and the lips feel dry?

Was i wrong?....was he wrong?...?

Me and my father havent had the best history together. we've always gotten along better when we dont live together. but after a really hard divorce(i was in a abusive relationship) i had to move back home with my 2 year old daughter. we lived in a nice 3 bedroom place with room enough for everyone, and a huge yard a dog a cat ect..well like i said me and my dad dont get along. hes the type of father that drinks his beer when he comes home from work(construction worker, 48 years old) and watches the weather channel eats dinner, showers and goes to bed. but sometimes...out of nowhere he'll be a complete jerk without warning. The last night that i lived there i had put my daughter to bed, both of my parents where laying down in bed. and i got on their computer(my bf let me use his internet port cuz my parents didnt have internet wayy out where we lived) and was talking to some friends and doing school work. no big deal right? well my dad came out of his room to go outside for a smoke and saw me and said "hey, what are u doing on the computer?" (ever since i can remember our first computer hes always hated seeing me on it, i recall beeing in the 6th grade and asking to use it for a research paper and he got so mad that he picked up the monitor and threw it in my bedroom. now..back to what i was saying..he asked what i was doing and i said "school work, my bf lent me his internet port so i could do it" and he said "uh no u can do your work in your bedroom, i know you, you get distrated easily" and i said "im not dad, im just doin my school work and then ill get off, i'll only be another 15-20mins max and ill be done" and he said "well why cant you do it in your room?" and i said "its easier to do it this way, its faster" and he said "well i dont want you on MY computer, get off" and i said "i dont see what the problem is, everyones in bed and im doing school work, whats wrong with that?" and he said "idc i dont want you on it. GET OFF" and so i shut my book and tossed it up on the counter, and he easily assumed that i was throwing it even though he was standing 5 feet away and watched me. and said "dont cop an attitude with me" and i said "i just dont see what the big deal is" and at that point my mother came out and said "wth is going on?" then told us both to stop it, i pushed the computer chair back over to the desk (not hard i just put my hand on the back of it, pushed it and it BARELY tapped the desk, my dad looked at me and said "OH YOU WANNA SLAM SH**? LETS GO SLAM SH**!" and walked into my bedroom and tipped over my entertainment stand. and it broke alot of my things. at that point i cried and called my bf to pick me up (my mom offered to watch my daughter) and to get the hell out. and that was about 3 or 4 months ago. i havent talked to my dad since then...is it wrong to not talk to him even though hes a sadist *******? sometimes i feel bad but sometimes ill think of that night and they WAY he said things with such a snarky attitude, you could easily tell he wanted to start sh**. so......am i wrong? was he wrong?.....what should i do?(oh and just to be clear my mother is watching my daughter and i take her everyother weekend (her dad gets her on the other weekends) until me and my bf get a place next month)

My granddaughter's hugs are a problem. Do you have any ideas?

This sounds interesting. I'm 12 my self (a girl) and I love to push peoples buttons trust me. But maybe something you could try is to hug on her extremely tight and maybe annoy or embarrass (in a family loving way) her. Or something that makes me feel bad is when some one I rly like (like my older cousin or aunt or mom) has a conversation with me and tells me to stop or when my mom sez it in front of everyone it makes me wNna stop

How to get rid of chapped lips FAST!?

I want to get rid of my annoying chapped lips by tomorrow morning. I'm using cherry carmex and it doesn't work that much at all. PLEASE HELP!?

Should I trust my husband?

Soon after marriage within 3 months i caught my husband fooling around with the maid then he got into drinking and started staying out late past midnight almost 20 days a month on inquiring he said his job kept him away he used to come home drunk not even a word of exchange between us leave aside good night and sheepishly leave home early early morning. Then we moved to another destination and he changed and we were like a family again but his drinking continued and since he was in sales he was always out and i found condoms in the house he said his prepuse had caught in the zipper and he showed the doc and the doc asked him to use but he had never used with me. After 35 years through the cab fellow i came to know that in his early married life he was out watching cabaret dances when i asked him he confessed that once in his drunken state the first time he saw the cabaret he got aroused and he visited a prostitute and after that once his friend forced him to and he accompanied him. First on confession he said he had two sexual encounters then after some days when i was really mad and told him that ok the first time u said u were drunk and did not know what you were doing though he distintly remembered his experience when inquired meaning how the boobs and how he felt when he entered etc (god) the second time when he went i said u should have had some shame becos those days i was doing double duty morning and evening to keep the home fires burning so suddenly he changed after a few days and said i remember the second time i did not do anything since my friend forced me to accompany him i went and since he had paid i went in with the lady but she just stripped to her panty and bra but i was in no mood so i just put my hand around her shoulder and just carassed her legs coming this from my husband is uneblievable becos just nude photos arouses him to the hilt. I just want to know that why did he describe the gory details of his first experience after so many years and made my life miserable though he has suddenly become like a love bird and smoking which was one thing dear to him he has given up saying he is doing this becos he is shameful and wants to say sorry but just yesterday i caught him smoking when he left the house i kind of followed him my doubt came when he started keeping cloromint in the house. Is he still a lier, a fibber, a cheater. I don't know what to do. I have a feeling he has had whores more than once as he claims he must have got into the habit and hence his late comings almost every other day. Okay that is past but everytime he becomes penniless and then becomes sober this has been going on for the past 35 years i keep working and paying his debts he has not been working since almost 15 years now. ONce he gets money he will be again be his abusive drinking arrogant self. But now he has promised not to do it ever again i must have heard this 15 times now. Mercifully we have no children. But after confession he is unable to make love to me he just does not get an erection i feel so dejected and unwanted. Please help what should i do. What is his pschology i dont understand. What do I do. I do love him though and like i said he has suddenly become like a love bird that is only after i made him read some articles on line like how to handle your spouse after cheating, is he acting, i dont uderstand can someone throw some light on this i am really losing my mental equilibrium. I am 10 years younger to him. My doubts are has he been sleeping with women often and lying. Because everytime he says he just had one sexual encounter but he describes the encounter in different ways everytime example i removed my clothes, i did not remove my clothes then suddenly i dont remember but does remember the parts he fondled very well then he never relates to the lady as she he always says they do this they do that they they. never she she if it is only once and then he says i always wash after coming home if it is once then how always...Is he lying or getting confused i dont understand. I am really losing my head are their any free sites on line where i can chat and at least relieve myself. plz help

Vacations, do you like long stays, or traipsing about?

i'd split it up: spend a couple weeks in one place, and a couple weeks jumping around from place to place. if you do that even once you'll not only get the best of both world, you'll know whether you want to stay somewhere or just keep moving the next time.

Do you think this speech is worth giving?

Ok so you went and found all the propaganda you could about in humane treatment of animals, there's plenty of it to find. But you should know that such treatment is not the norm. And excuse me most of those attacks by animals are people keeping them as pets who do not possess the skills nor the knowledge to properly look after such animals. My suggestion is you should look in to regulation about animals and see what is required by law, that is what the norm is supposed to be.

I need a dermatologist or skin specialist please!!!!?

It might be some kind of allergic reaction or even possibly eczema. I recommend you go check with your GP or get referred to a dermatologist

Does anyone know this Rurouni Kenshin episode?

Okay, so I remember watching an episode of Rurouni Kenshin when I was little and it was pretty kick ***. I know that in the beginning of the episode, Yahiko and Sanosuke were fighting over rice or I guess they were fighting because they were hungry. I also remember there being a cat who caught a fish because it's tail was in the water. Later in the episode, the group got onto a boat for what ever reason, I don't remember, and there was a fight. I can recall that Kenshin was also pealing potatoes with Kaoru on the boat. Thank you to who ever helps me find this episode! If it even exists!

BUY ROOM vs BUY CLOTHES ?

You should do both, but I guess you should spend it on your room more, and then by two outfits for the school days that you can dress up. :)

Lake brazos restaurant sucks?

IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY JUNE 27, WENT TO LAKE BRAZOS STEAKEHOUSE FOR THE FIRST AN DEFINITELY THE LAST TIME BEEN IN TEXAS FOR OVER 5 YEARS I WILL NOT RECOMMEND, THIS PITIFUL ESTABLISHMENT TO ANYONE THE SERVICE SUCKED THE WAITRESS STARTED OFF BY NOT LISTENING TO WHAT WE ORDERED, THE PERSON THAT BROUGHT MY WIFE AN I FOR MY B-DAY ASKED HER IF DRINKS WERE HALF PRICE SHE SAID YES THEY ARE SO WE WAITED ABOUT 20 MINS TO GET 4 MARGARITAS WE ALL PLACED OUR ORDERS DINNER AN SALADS ABOUT ANOTHER 20 MINS SHE CAME BACK AN TOLD MY WIFE THAT THEY WERE OUT OF BRISKET SO MY WIFE DECIDED ON BABY BACK RIBS SO ANOTHER 15 20 MINS OUR DINNER ARRIVES NO SALAD YET SO WE ASKED IF SHE PLANNED ON GIVING OUR SALADS OH YEA, SO SHE COMES BACK WITH THREE SALADS AN TOTALLY FORGOT I ORDERED ONE ALSO I WATCHED AS WE MADE THE ORDERS SHE WROTE EVERYTHING DOWN GUESS WHAT LITTLE GIRL ITS TIME TO LEARN HOW TO READ AN SERVE DINNER AS IT WAS MEANT TO BE SALAD BEFORE DINNER THE FOOD WAS DEFINITELY NOT WORTH THE HASSLES TO NOT BE ABLE TO MOVE ANYTHING AROUND ON THE TABLE ITS ALWAYS FUN TO REST YOUR ARMS ON YOUR PLATES WHEN THERE IS NO ROOM BECAUSE YOUR SERVER IS INCOMPETENT TO DO THERE JOB PROPERLY OK WE ALL SAT AROUND FOR ANOTHER 20 TO 30 MINS AFTER DINNER THE WAITRESS FINALLY ASKED IF WE WANTED OUR BILL WE GET IT AN SHE CHARGES US FULL PRICE FOR THE MARGARITAS WE GET HER ATTENTION ABOUT HER SAYING THAT THEY WERE HALF PRICE OH NO THERE NOT SHE SAID TO US IN FRONT OF FOUR PEOPLE DUMB DUMB LITTLE GIRL SO SHE GETS THE MANAGER TO COME TO THE TABLE WITCH WE FOUND OUT WAS THE OWNER THE ATTITUDE WE GOT FROM HIM ABOUT THE FOUR DRINKS WAS UNBELIEVABLE U WANT TO MAKE THINGS RITE WITH YOUR CUSTOMERS NOT TREAT US LIKE WE WERE IN THE WRONG U ARE AN ***, TO THE OWNER WE WILL NEVER COME TO YOUR ESTABLISHMENT WE WILL NEVER RECOMMEND YOUR PLACE AN NOW IT IS NOW MORNING MY WIFE GOT FOOD POISONING FROM LAKE BRAZOS RETAURANT THANKS FOR THE SHITS WE APPRECIATE IT RYAN

One week on accutane, seeing no difference at all?

Hi, I am a 21 year old female and have just been prescribed accutane. Today marks day 7 of taking accutane. I am a little worried because I have seen no improvement in my acne at all whatsoever. Not only this, but my body doesn't seem to be reacting to it at all, I have no dryness, no chapped lips, nothing. My skin is as oily as ever and I guess my question is, when will I start to notice something happening? Has anyone else had something similar happen to them? Thanks!

Could you plese help me ? i am very confused:(?

You have every symptom of bipolar disorder. Stephen Fry is a famous sufferer, so you're in good company. You should probably talk to a professional.

Inflammed/Swollen/Irritating/C… Lips?

It sounds like it could be an allergy to spicy food. Try some medicated lip balm and an overnight lip balm. You might want to get something with AHA to gently exfoliate. It may seem hard, but you want to avoid licking your lips and peeling the dead skin. Stay hydrated.

Was the prohet mohammad rich?

bukhari vol. 4 chap. 88 the prophet said spears were his livelihood;;bukhari 3.37.495 allah made mohammad rich through conquest , raids, plunder and war; the muslim god allah said; sura 59:6-7 mohammad's booty is allah's booty, which was the way allah made mohammad rich. so was mohammad poor or rich after raiding between 73 to 100 villages and towns in the last 9 years of his life?

So,we broke up,he's dating my "bff" and he's a jerk,why?

Well,again,i'm 13,me and my bf broke up a few weeks ago,due to all we did was argue,and a day later,i found out he cheated on me weeks before with my so-called best friend. Now,it's been about 2 weeks,and then,i learn that 2 hours after breaking up with each other,he asked my "bff" out,so,now their dating,and whenever i text him now,he is a toatal a$$hole! he calls me *****,slut,even if i havent done anytihng to him,and my "bff" is just no frickin help..so,i though it wouldnt bother me as much..but it does,i was his 1st kiss,and all that..so..why is he being such an ***?

Which is better for a man to ride in on a horse - loose jeans or breeches?

If youre hot, i agree with the first answer haha. really it depends on you, go try some on and see if you feel comfortable in them. you wont look like a girl in them and my find out more girls will look at you in them. we like a man in uniform. When i go to the racetrack, the drivers all look much better in their racing colors than they do in their street clothes. I've seen a few that were damn sexy in their colors and then see them in their street clothes and say to myself "what was i thinking, look at that gut, or man titties" lol. (just so you girls know im not talking about jockeys im talking about drivers and they wear totally different clothes.)

Palmers CoCo Butter Lip Balm?

I use the Palmer's coco butter as well, I love it! I have used the lip balm I liked the smell and it makes your lips look nice and moisturized to, after a few days use I found my lips weren't as chapped! One thing I would say is you have to re-apply every few hours but it's small enough to take in your bag or put it in your pocket anyway - theres an SPF one aswell which i'm definitly taking with me when i go on holiday...for the price it is, it is definitly worth a try! xxxxx

How do Hindus explain this passage from the Bhagavad-Gita?

"Arjuna saw them standing there: fathers, grandfathers, teachers, uncles, brothers, sons, grandsons, and friends. He surveyed his elders and companions in both armies, all his kinsmen assembled together. Dejected, filled with strange pity, he said this: 'Krishna [god], I see my kinsmen gathered here, wanting war. I see omens of chaos, Krishna; I see no good in killing my kinsmen in battle. How can we ignore the wisdom of turning from this evil when we see the sin of family destruction, Krishna? When the family is ruined, the timeless laws of family duty perish; and when duty is lost, chaos overwhelms the family. In overwhelming chaos, Krishna, women of the family are corrupted; and when women are corrupted, disorder is born in society'. Saying this in the time of war, Arjuna slumped into the chariot and laid down his bow and arrows, his mind tormented by grief. [The Lord Krishna answers:] You grieve for those beyond grief, and you speak works of insight; but learned men do not grieve for the dead or the living. Never have I not existed, nor you, nor these kings; and never in the future shall we cease to exist. Just as the embodied self enters childhood, youth, and old age, so does it enter another body; this does not confound a steadfast man. Our bodies are known to end, but the embodied self is enduring, indestructible, and immeasurable; therefore, Arjuna, fight the battle! He who thinks this self a killer and he who thinks it killed, both fail to understand; it does not kill, nor is it killed. It is not born, it does not die; having been, it will never not be; unborn, enduring, constant, and primordial, it is not killed when the body is killed. Arjuna, when a man knows the self to be indestructible, enduring, unborn, unchanging, how does he kill or cause anyone to kill? Death is certain for anyone born, and birth is certain for the dead; since the cycle is inevitable, you have no cause to grieve! Be intent on action, not on the fruits of action; avoid attraction to the fruits and attachment to inaction! Perform actions, firm in discipline, relinquishing attachment; be impartial to failure and success - this equanimity is called discipline." [from the Bhagavad-Gita -Miller translation]